Too many women get used and hurt by men who are playing with their feelings in order to get what they want, but in reality actually have no intention of commitment or building a relationship together. Sure, but in a more “traditional” sense, men are more notorious for saying all the right things they don’t really mean in order to get what they want – so that’s who we’ll focus on here.
________________________________________ A player makes generalized statements in your direction rather than talking about In other words, could his compliments be copy and pasted into his texts to another girl, or is he talking about something specific to you?
These types of men have a certain bad-boy allure that drives some women wild.
They know how to make a woman feel special and really turn on the charm to get what they want.
Here are some tell-tale signs that the man you’re seeing might be a player: Romance for Hire Players know the secret to making women fall for them quickly: they’re selling romance.
If a man is vague in his discussion and doesn’t dive into what makes you tick, what your passions are, and what you want out of life, you have to honestly ask yourself how interested he truly is.
Oh well, if he was that reactive and didn’t have the decency to talk about his feelings, he wasn’t the right guy for me. We spoke openly and transparently about what we learned from our past relationships. Understand that a good guy wants to escalate the relationship and takes an active interest in you. Have you ever dated a player who was disguised as a good guy?
Even though I was a bit shaken, I felt I had dodged a bullet. We talked about the big challenges we had overcome in our lives. He did me a favor by showing his character so quickly. I know how to cut the players loose before my heart takes over. I’ve learned to have self-compassion and not expect to always get things right the first time around.
I’ve learned to accept the man I date for who he is today, not who he might become if only… He lived about an hour away so after a few phone calls, we decided to Skype to get a physical/energetic sense of each other. He told me he found me to be very attractive and sexy.
I enjoyed his compliments, but was a little concerned that “sexy” was the first thing on his mind.