It’s painful to think about it, but it’s also sadistically reassuring to know that you’re not the only one hurting inside. It feels good to know your ex still hurts and suffers, and thinks about you just as much as you’re thinking about them. [Read: Googling an ex – Online obsessions] I got a call a few times, and I heard no one on the other end. But later that night, I got to know that a friend of mine from out of town was trying to call me and couldn’t hear anything from my end. The next few days saw me jumping with ecstasy and hitting rock bottom with anger and pain.
[Read: How to stop thinking about someone you still like a lot] Is my ex thinking about me? There were many more songs included in the status updates for the next few days ranging from Evanescence’s ‘My immortal’ to Rihanna’s ‘Love the way you lie’.
The delighted bride and groom should have danced through confetti before being waved off by an elated congregation as they were chauffeured away in a luxury car.
And then it should have been on to a hotel function room, where excited guests should have listened to amusing anecdotes from the best man on how the newlyweds met.
I would not expect him to put his parents or his siblings – one brother and two sisters – ahead of his wife and children, but he does nothing to ease the situation during a bad phase.
We all find it especially hard as my family tends generally to rub along pretty well with everybody, and we don’t really “do conflict”.Break ups are painful, and as much as it hurts, break ups also bring with it the hope of getting an ex back or meeting someone new to fill the void.I’ve broken hearts a few times, and have had my heart broken several times too.But things were very different for the brother and sister who wed last week.The brother and sister who knew that they were defying the law by joining together in matrimony.